I know that this topic is very sensitive so I hope this helps you. Have you been in a situation where you felt betrayed by someone ? like someone got your hopes up but later on turned around and pulled the plug on you? I am certain that you lashed out or you probably fought back and maybe you acted in a way that you later regretted. Truth be told it's natural to feel hurt when you are offended. Especially when a person got your hopes up high for nothing, but let me say this as a friendly reminder to you. Let the Lord avenge for you. What do I mean by this give yourself some time to heal and let those emotions go. The enemy did that to frustrate you and to make you feel like a failure. There is a reason why the bible says that we should pray for our enemies. There is a demon that is responsible for making people do things like that. Remember that the devil is a deceiver. Deception is his trait and if a person does this just know that there is a spirit that is manifesting in that individual. God's thoughts for us are good and not evil. Pray that God opens the eyes of these people who are being used by the enemy and pray that God changes their heart and their mind. Don't carry any evil grudge against them. Remember even while Jesus was painfully dying on the cross, he still asked his father to forgive us because we were in ignorance. These deceivers are not happy within themselves and that is why they do the things that they do. If they had love they wouldn't have done that. Please pray for those that hurt you and forgive them too so that God can bless you and open his window of blessings for you. If you don't forgive you won't be forgiven either.
Say that a man promised to marry you and he really put your hopes high into the sky and perhaps maybe upon getting to the wedding day he cancels on you. Your family and friends are doing their best to get this man to carry through with the wedding but he refuses. What should you do in this situation.As difficult as it is forgive him and move on. If this man was God's perfect will for you he wouldn't have done that to you. No man in his right senses will cancel his wedding upon reaching the wedding day. God is saving you from making a terrible mistake. Yes, it is painful that that this man lead you on and embarrassed you like that, not to mention the amount of money that you invested into your wedding but please give yourself some time to heal, forgive him and move on. God has a better man for you and vice versa. Overtime you will see that such a person will pay for the harm they did to you because whatever a man sows that is what he will reap but nevertheless let God avenge for you.
And to the people who take pleasure in deceiving others, I want to inform you that it never ends well. This world is very small and you might need that person who you hurt one day. Be good to others so that good can come back to you. Treat others with love and kindness because you, just like me are not perfect and you too can make mistakes. If you have no intentions of helping a person don't lie about it and lead them on just be upfront, because in that same manner that you deceived that person the same will be done to you sooner or later.
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