80/20 Program (Men)

Many people have the tendency of leaving an 80 for a 20. So the question is what is the 80/20 program. It is a strategy of the enemy (the devil) to deter men from loving their partner and makes them leave their wives, some future wife and for some their girlfriend depending on the relationship of the man for a lady who appears to look better than their partner. In the process of the man chasing after this lady (20) he loses both the 20 and the 80 (wife, fiance, or girlfriend). 
Ultimately we can say that this strategy is to make the man lose out completely. Here is what you need to know. The devil knows the fastest way to bring down a man and do you want to guess what he uses? the woman read the book of Genesis to confirm this fact. The downfall or the rise of any man is a woman whether it be his wife, his sister or his mother.

Here is my advice: If you feel that the woman you are with is not good enough you need to ask yourself why? why are you suddenly losing interest in her. Was your intentions of being in a relationship an act of infatuation, was it real? If yes what do you think could be causing you to lose your love for her? Is it because she doesn't dress well, or used to but no longer dresses well, is it due to her attitude, her smell ? her hair? find out exactly why you are losing interest in her and address it. What I have observed in this generation is that when something gets too difficult we tend to give up and leave rather than persevering and trying to make things work. If after addressing these issues with her and these problems are still lingering, do you know what you should do next? Present these issues before God your creator, ask God to help her with these problems that she is having. The devil perhaps is playing mind games with her, unknown to you perhaps he is filling her head with lies and her self-esteem is depleting , she could probably be suffering from depression. Find out for yourself don't begin to bring her down with your words or your actions. Look at what the scripture says 

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it  Ephesians 5:25. Remember the good times, don't be in a hurry to chase after the 20. Women under this category are women who don't mind sleeping with married men, women who have no class and women who lack self-control.These women are temporal and have no intentions on being with you for the true reasons, just the superficial.Try to keep the love alive no matter the cost. Remember Jesus loves you and laid down his life for you, transfer that love to your wife and she will turn around. Don't lose faith. Stay tuned for my next post where I will talk about the 80/20 program aimed at the women.