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So I came across a post that if you ask me in my honest opinion was baseless and not sensible. So in this post the author said "Beloved Lady, Don't be fooled. Don't block
your future husband plzzzzz.
Your boyfriend is not your husband!" Listen ladies men like this are egocentric and believe that they are the best option that you will ever come across, avoid such men. Any man that does not respect your current relationship, will do the same thing with a another lady if you decide to be in a relationship with him. Let's read further into what the author said "A guy approached you for a relationship,and you tell him, 'I have a boyfriend',boyfriend ke? Its very wrong to tell a guy, "I have a boyfriend', when a guy asks you out." First of all there is nothing wrong with telling a man that you are already in a committed relationship, so that he knows from the onset that there can be nothing past a friendship. Would this author like it if  another man wants to be "friends" with his girlfriend? or take his future wife- to- be away from him? I am not referring to just a friendship , but the kind that can lead to a relationship. Let's be real we know how possessive men can be so why would he think that it's wrong to set the record straight from the onset? 

Then he goes on to say "A guy met a Lady of 27 years he really

admired, he asked her out and she boldly told him, 'no! Using the word "I have a boyfriend!' "
Jesus! A boyfriend at 27 years? What's wrong with that? everybody's timing is not the same, that's what people fail to understand I have a friend who got married to her longtime boyfriend and they have been dating since 7th grade. They didn't get married until she was 28 or perhaps 27 years old. Age truly doesn't matter some people are forty and act worse than a three year old, it's about maturity, financial ability, emotional stability as well as the individual's spirituality. The post goes on a little bit more but I won't say much more about it. What I will say is this your timing is not the same with everybody's, there is a reason why when you are about to run in a race, you are advise not to look at your competitors. Stay in your own lane and finish your race well.