You can't trap a man

   In this post today I will be talking about the impossibilities of trapping a man. In my next post I will be talking about the impossibilities of trapping a woman. Why is it impossible to trap a man? A man will only stay with a woman if he truly wants to. First of all there has to be something about this woman that makes it hard for him to walk out irrespective of the situation. A lot of women have this notion : "Once I have sex with him, there is no possible way that he will leave me". I want to inform you that that's a lie. Should you decide to deny your husband of sex, depending on the kind of man he is, he will find another woman who will be more than willing to give it to him and that's just a fact.  Even if your man is thee most faithful husband in this world , even if he is a Godly man and a heavily anointed man at that, he will at some point have sex with another woman should you deny him of it, except if God chooses to intervene and he decides to listen to God. At the end of the day he is flesh and blood.

    Another common deception that a lot of women believe : "Once I have his babies there is no way that he will leave me". Ladies, we no longer live in a generation where men are ashamed of having children out of wedlock. We no longer live in a generation that covers up for unwanted pregnancies through marriage. If you get knocked up by this man he can still leave you for another woman or even women depending on the kind of man you have. So allow me to put it this way, you can do everything in your ability to keep a man, but if he cannot find any virtue in you and if you are not giving him a reason to continue on in the marriage/relationship he will leave regardless of whether he has kids with you or not. This includes Breadwinners who are women (financially speaking). Think with your brain don't always think with your heart. The heart tends to make us overlook situations that we should actually be focused on due to our emotions and feelings.
    What was your reason for being with him in the first place? Is it because he makes money? If it's because of money try your best to find a job and  make your own money don't use any man as a leverage. If you depend solely on a man for his income, he can decide to use that to control you. Try your best to fend for yourself, you can let your husband spoil you I am not against that, but don't solely depend on him for everything. Did you decide to be with him  because of the way he looks? Beauty fades and good looks fade too, nothing lasts forever. Don't let his attractiveness on the outside blind you from his ugliness on the inside.
   If this man is attractive but he genuinely doesn't love you, it doesn't matter what you do to trap him, this man will not stay. Is it because of the way he pleases you sexually? What people fail to understand is that sex is a bond between your soul and your body, you shouldn't give that up to anybody except if it's your husband or wife. That's the way God designed it. I am not judging you if you made mistakes in the past and even if you are currently struggling with it now, if you decide to start on a fresh new leaf with God he will forgive you!! Just keep trying until you break free from this sexual addiction, the Lord is your strength. I had a good friend of mine who removed sex from her relationship and things shortly ended between them. He moved on with another lady and so did she with another man. Why is pre-martial sex dangerous, it can cloud your thinking. There are many people today that only got married to their partners because they were so "good in bed" forgetting that marriage isn't only about sex. The dangerous of pre-martial sex is a conversation for another time. In Summary you really can't trap a man, a man will only stay if he wants to and if there is something about you that he can't find in another woman.